Interview: How I kept my virginity for 23 years

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For my second interview, I spoke with a 23 years old virgin. She also decided to stay anonymous though. However, she shared her story and what it means to be a virgin in your 20s.

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Welcome to Lifestyle with Jodi🤗

Thank you.🤗🤗

Do you mind confirming your age for me?

I’m 22. I’ll be 23 in October.

So you are 23 years old and still a virgin? Is that correct?

Yes I am. 😂😂

Wow. How do you feel about that?

Err well… I feel okay, I guess. Personally, I feel okay about it.

If I may ask, what or who influenced your decision to remain a virgin?

No one actually. Even my mum was totally suprised when I told her. So definitely not her😂. No one. It’s personal.

That’s cool by the way. So what are your plans? Are you waiting for your prince charming? A particular age? Your wedding night?

Well… I’m a very indecisive person. And a little bit of an old fashioned soul. I really hope that the person who’s lucky enough (cause you know I’m a hot kek) to have me would be the person I marry. Sometimes ild tell myself ild wait till marriage. Other times I’m like once I find someone I really love, it doesn’t have to be till then😂. So yeah, I’m pretty indecisive about the whole thing. You know how konji and love can be a bastard and in one minute everything is gone.😂😂😂 So I can never tell.

So are you saying you haven’t found love yet?

Well… I did once.
Or I thought I did.
See we girls have found love every now and then only to be proven wrong 😂😂😂
But I was in a sorta serious relationship back in school… I wouldn’t lie, we tried it.
But I chickened out. Too much pain bruh 😩

Oh. So you’re actually open to it anytime, as long as you’re with someone you really love?

I guess. Yeah.

In a world where there’s so much sexual content, do you ever wish you were no longer a virgin?

Nope. I don’t ever wish so.
I don’t ever take it serious at all.
This same sexual world where a lot have gotten diseases through that. And some have unknowingly become pregnant?
Abeg… I don’t wish so.
This life is just cruise.

I know right…so how do you cope when you’re horny? Or you don’t ever get horny?

Lmaoooo 😂😂😂
I do…I totally do.😂😂😂
But that’s the thing…I’m not too sexual. I don’t think about it outside it. Don’t know if you get?
Ngl… I’ve done a lot of other stufff😂😂😂😂. Other CREATIVE stuff🤣🤣🤣🤣.So yeah.

Creative stuff?😂 I think I’m interested. Do you mind sharing?

Babeeeee😂😂😂
We’re not gonna sit here and discuss the creative stuff. 🤣🤣🤣🤣We know these things bruh😂😂😂

Do we?😂😂 What of my other virgin readers that don’t?

They are mad ohhh.😂😂😂
Everyone is freaky. Everyone can be freaky. Everyone has diff versions of freaky.😂😂😂 Everybody should mind their own business 😂😂😂

So it’s a freaky stuff then…freaky freaky.😂😂😁

Ooinn😉

Moving on, have you been in any situation where you had to answer if u were a virgin or not?

😂😂
SEVERAL TIMES
Like what’s people’s business tho.
They just want to know
While some already assume that I’m a hoe. Been called that severally. In my head I’m like.. well, only if you knew. So these days, I just leave people to their imaginations.

That’s crazy. Everybody is quite curious.
A hoe? Without even doing anything? Mehnn. How did you feel about that?

Err…well, I can’t do anything honestly. That’s their concern.😂 I feel like a lot of people that shame others are just projecting their insecurities. During the whole anonymous message thing. My class did it and I was called a hoe severally. It’s just funny, on God 😂😂😂
Like who in this world wants to come out and say he slept with me. TF? 😂😂 You slept with a spirit dear😂
Of course I’d feel terrible afff. It’s what it is.
I wouldn’t really blame them per se. Like my mum told me. The way I dress and take pictures and entertain or whatever would make people think so. I’m like you think those Alhajas that cover up aren’t smashing.
You’d be suprised to hear that your pastor’s wife is freaky under the sheets. You can’t judge me because of how I look, dress or talk or whatever. That’s just my personality and what I like doing. See it’s fucked up jare…Or maybe it’s better they see me for a hoe than for them to know that I’m still a virgin. People would look at me weird either ways. It’s fucked up.

I can understand because majority of people are hypocrites. I’m so sorry about that.

😂😂
It’s cool. It’s not that serious.
I take a lotta pride in the fact that I’m able to withhold no matter how horny or whatever.
So that’s something.

Okay…so, do you have close friends who are virgins as well?

NOPE 😂😂😂😂
All my friends are NOT😂😂😂😂
It’s crazy 🤣🤣🤣
Except maybe one. I suspect she is. I didn’t ask her. I like minding my business sometimes. Cause with telling, comes explanations and all that. Abeg.

Wow. So how do you contribute to sexual conversations and all that?

Err..well, you’d be surprised that I sorta know a lot.
I watch tons of porn and all. So I say what I know. And they say theirs.
They aren’t discriminating at all. So whenever we have those discussions, they don’t look at me weird like, bitch you haven’t done it so shut up.
We all just go with the flow. 😂

Alright, so any advice to young girls out there who are still virgins?

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STAY AWAY FROM PRESSURE DEAR
Don’t let anyone pressure you into staying a virgin or loosing it.
Do it whenever you want to with the right person or the wrong person 😂😂
Whatever you want babe.
Just let it be a personal decision.
I know someone who lost it to the wrong person and she happy about her choice. Same with the person who did it with the right person. Make it PERSONAL.

Thank you very much for your time. Are you single by the way?

Yes ohhh. AFFF

Searching?

Not actively. Just got out of a relationship.

This one that you’re Anonymous, if your prince charming is reading, how will he get through to you?

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My dear…
If he’s serious. He’d find me. 😂😂😂Can’t have people judging me with my choices after this😂😂😂

Yeah. I understand. No problem.

And yes.. for those still asking about the Creative things.
Listen to Tory Lanes, you’d become creative too
😂😂😂😂😂

That’s some good advice right there.🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thank you once again.

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